You Hurt My Feelings

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You Hurt My Feelings

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Released May 26, 2023

1h 33m

Comedy

Drama

Romance

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From acclaimed filmmaker Nicole Holofcener comes a sharply observed comedy about a novelist whose long standing marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband give his honest reaction to her latest book. A film about trust, lies, and the things we say to the people we love most.

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Critics Consensus

Smart, funny, and above all entertaining, You Hurt My Feelings finds writer-director Nicole Holofcener as sharply perceptive as ever.

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Audience Says

You Hurt My Feelings is well-acted and sometimes funny, but it's also slow -- and it can be hard to care about the problems of some fairly unlikable characters.

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Tim Robey

Daily Telegraph (UK)

The film is mature, relatable and risks being terminally uncool – full of evident chagrin from Holofcener that she can’t be a new voice these days, but also comfortably embracing the old one.

Rated: 3/5

Aug 10, 2023

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Larushka Ivan-Zadeh

metro.co.uk

The film is ultimately saved by a self-awareness of its own absurdly privileged viewpoint.

Rated: 4/5

Aug 8, 2023

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Iana Murray

Empire Magazine

A delightful, hilarious and deeply human film about the innate contradictions we refuse to accept.

Rated: 4/5

Aug 8, 2023

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William Stottor

FILMHOUNDS Magazine

Ultimately, You Hurt My Feelings asks the right questions—the ripe paranoid thoughts people might have about their own artistic work and the fine line between honesty and support—but falters in its somewhat middling execution.

Rated: 3/5

Sep 3, 2024

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Matt Pais

MattPais.com

A deceptively complex examination of the relationship between feelings and words, and how inadequately we often navigate the two.

Rated: B+

Jun 17, 2024

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Andrew Galdi

Movie Bitches

Its watchable, it’s charming, it just doesn’t have that much to say

Rated: B

Apr 24, 2024

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Judy

Comedy, action, drama

Rated 0.5 out of 5 stars

07/24/23

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Engin O

Really sweet, entertaining, endearing, and hilarious comedy. Wonderful movie

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

07/21/23

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Jessica B

Cute story I really like Julia Louis-Dreyfus. I liked her husband's interactions with his patients and Julia's relationship with her sister and mother. The story was a bit surface, but an enjoyable movie.

Rated 4 out of 5 stars

07/16/23

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Clay and Sujata

Thought provoking, touching, kind, and beautifully acted.

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

07/08/23

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Charles D

I expected this to be a chick flick but found it to be a good story line I could relate to.

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

06/17/23

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Kelly

very funny & kept your interest

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

06/16/23

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Sarah

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Synopsis

From acclaimed filmmaker Nicole Holofcener comes a sharply observed comedy about a novelist whose long standing marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband give his honest reaction to her latest book. A film about trust, lies, and the things we say to the people we love most.

Director: Nicole Holofcener
Producer: Stefanie Azpiazu, Anthony Bregman, Nicole Holofcener, Julia Louis-Dreyfus
Screenwriter: Nicole Holofcener
Distributor: A24
Production Co: Likely Story, FilmNation Entertainment
Rating: R (Language)
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Original Language: English
Release Date (Theaters): May 26, 2023, Wide
Release Date (Streaming): Jun 22, 2023
Box Office (Gross USA): $3.8M
Runtime: 1h 33m
Sound Mix: Dolby Digital

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