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Before You Know It

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In 1993 New York City, dysfunctional co-dependent sisters discover that the mother they thought had died when they were young is alive and starring on a popular daytime soap opera.
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Before You Know It wrings an entertaining dramedy out of one family's fraught dynamic thanks to wise, witty writing and sharp work from a talented ensemble.

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Brad Wheeler Globe and Mail The dialogue is clever and the premise witty. It's a New York-y film that has the zip of a farce, without all the nuttiness. (There's a little nuttiness.) Rated: 3/4 Sep 18, 2019 Full Review Katie Walsh Los Angeles Times A charming and quirky New York tale, if a bit disorganized, finding its voice when it quiets down to just listen to the three women at the center of the story. Sep 12, 2019 Full Review David Lewis San Francisco Chronicle "Before You Know It" isn't without its moments, but it could have used more of them. Sometimes it's a slog. Rated: 2/4 Sep 12, 2019 Full Review David Lamble Bay Area Reporter Hannah Pearl Utt embeds us with a New York theater family just as their lives are coming unstuck... Jun 8, 2020 Full Review Katherine Monk Ex-Press.com The script captures the edges of the internal drama within each character without asking them to say everything out loud... It's such a female way of communicating that it gives the film a whole other facet, adding depth to a tub of predictable... Rated: 3.5/5 Nov 10, 2019 Full Review Joe Friar The Victoria Advocate Good performances, whimsical dialogue, and funny moments make this a memorable visit to the cinema. Rated: 3/4 Oct 22, 2019 Full Review Read all reviews

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Miguel C I really loved this film! I watched it a week ago and and I am still thinking about it. It's sort of just about how to live a meaningful and responsible life, which is an age-old question, but I liked the attitude the film takes toward that question. And I guess the film just really landed for me, so I laughed pretty hard and had some tears and emotions and stuff too. The actors really succeeded in making everything believable and relatable. And...Mandy Patinkin! But everyone else is also great! And it's funny! Anyway, just watch it. Rated 5 out of 5 stars 11/15/22 Full Review Audience Member Before You Know It, (2019), is a quirky American comedy with touches of surrealism directed by Hannah Peart Utt who also stars in her film as Rachel Gurner. It features an eclectic cast from heavyweights such as Alec Baldwin (Peter), Mandy Patinkin (Mel Gurner), Judith Light (Sherrill), to Jen Tullock (Jackie Gurner), Oona Yaffe (Dodge Gurner), and Mike Colter (Charles). It's the story of two sisters, one a single parent, and the other unmarried, who are living with their beloved father when they suddenly learn that their mother is alive and well and a famous soap opera star to bout when their cantankerous father, Mel Gurner, dies suddenly. Finding out the truth about their supposed deceased mother drives the dramatic tension of the film set set against a backdrop of city scapes of New York City, which is in and of itself, a character in the story. Where else could such a story take place? The performances of the main and supporting characters make the film. Hannah gives a stellar performance as Rachel Gurner infusing her character with authenticity and gravitas. She radiates a combination of street smarts, charm, wit, intelligence, and vulnerability. Jen plays the flaky sister and smothering mom who dresses inappropriately to a fault, and Oona plays her cool, sane teen daughter Dodge who provides a refreshing contrast to both mother and aunt. Utt weaves together many visual elements to create a funny film juxtaposing the narrative of finding their mother against the loss of their father and the simmering tensions and dysfunctional family dynamics of an atypical New York family who run a community theater in the village. New York City features prominently in the film framing and contextualizing the narrative and storyline, giving the film depth and complexity. It's a beautifully shot film and the cut aways of NYC are candy to the eye evoking feelings of wanderlust. It's a marvelous film drawing on the many features of comedy from slapstick humour to funny one-liners to comedic situations which drives the storyline. Patinkin's performance is riveting and his stage performance to promote his play is a hoot to watch when he throws his chance to have it professionally staged by acting childish and dumb. Baldwin's performance as the anal retentive psychotherapist who chastises Dodge from playing with an antique toy and pushes instead a box of kleenex is another comedic moment. It's an enjoyable romp of a film full of twists and turns which fuel the narrative. One of the funniest scenes tinged with drama is the antics of the two sisters as they illegally make their way onto the TV set to catch a glimpse of their mother performing. The motif of the pathology of a dysfunctional family with secrets and lies runs through the film stitching the narrative into a cohesive structure. It was wonderful to watch Ms. Light's performance who really is a famous soap opera star hamming it up all decked out in her finery and gobs of dramatic make up. She is a gem of an actress. The film resonated with me on a personal level such as the importance of family albeit its dysfunctionality and pathology, and celebrating the concept of second chances which everyone is deserving of. Second chances allow us to redeem ourselves with relationship to self and other. But, it's more than a comedic film, but a coming of age film for Rachel, Jackie, and Dodge as they navigate their new circumstances and move on with their lives. The acting, the storyline, the dialogue, the soundtrack, and the cinematography make it a wonderful and enjoyable film. Do see it for you won't be disappointed. Rated 4 out of 5 stars 01/24/23 Full Review Audience Member Great movie. Funny, light hearted movie, with teens coming of age. Rated 5 out of 5 stars 02/10/23 Full Review Audience Member Not my cup of tea but even I can tell it was a well made movie 2.5 Rated 2.5 out of 5 stars 05/19/21 Full Review dave d What a cast for hubby and wife date night, but it was a snoozefest in the drama bore 'Before You Know It'. Hannah Pearl Utt stars directs and co-wrote this with co-star Jen Tullock. It's terrible. It has individual performances that are award worthy. It all adds up to nothing. Utt is a Greta Gerwig wannabe who couldn't shine her shoes. This was putting us to sleep in the early evening. You'll need coffee. Credit to some of the actors, but this is a debut thud from Utt. Wife: 4.8/Hubby: 4.9 Average: 4.9/10 Rated 2.5 out of 5 stars 03/31/23 Full Review Audience Member pointless,dull,uninteresting-real waste of time-not close to being pleasingly good. Rated 1.5 out of 5 stars 02/07/23 Full Review Read all reviews
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Synopsis In 1993 New York City, dysfunctional co-dependent sisters discover that the mother they thought had died when they were young is alive and starring on a popular daytime soap opera.
Director
Hannah Pearl Utt
Producer
Mallory Schwartz, James Brown, Josh Hetzler
Screenwriter
Jen Tullock, Hannah Pearl Utt
Distributor
1091
Production Co
Ball & Chain Productions, Feracious Entertainment, El Dorado Pictures
Genre
Comedy
Original Language
English
Release Date (Theaters)
Aug 30, 2019, Limited
Release Date (Streaming)
Dec 5, 2019
Box Office (Gross USA)
$151.2K
Runtime
1h 38m
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