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Holding the Man

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In the 1970s, two teen boys in Australia fight all obstacles thrown their way and refuse to renounce the love they feel for each other.
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Heart-wrenching performances center Holding the Man, an achingly beautiful portrayal of love and death that may be too real for some.

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Alex Chambers Little White Lies Jun 3, 2016
2/5
Sometimes more Wikipedia bio than memoir. Go to Full Review
Benjamin Lee Guardian Jun 2, 2016
3/5
The tale of a 70s schoolboy romance that blossoms into a relationship and is torn apart by the advent of HIV in the 80s. Go to Full Review
David Parkinson Empire Magazine Jun 2, 2016
2/5
Sluggishly formulaic, this is a disappointingly superficial interpretation of an important book. Go to Full Review
Ben Turner The Pink Lens Sep 2, 2021
3/5
In putting a human face on the AIDS Crisis, Holding The Man succeeds to a degree. Go to Full Review
Alexander Ryll Gay Essential Sep 15, 2019
Based on Tim Conigrave's memoir of the same name, Holding The Man is the touching love story between aspiring actor and writer Conigrave and his partner of fifteen years John Caleo. Go to Full Review
Bertie Archer One Room With A View Apr 2, 2019
4/5
A true team effort, co-captained by Coor and Stott and expertly directed by Armfield. Holding The Man tackles a big issue in a delicate yet unflinching manner. Go to Full Review
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Jeremy G @RT42208211 Mar 26, 2026 A film that renders a tragic gay love story during the Aids period of the 90s. Such a great film, with amazing actors. The director manages to really make the main characters come to life with all their flaws and ambiguities. It's an amazing achievement. See more Oaklee D @ODie63 Aug 6, 2025 A charming yet heartbreaking true love story. See more Jul 18, 2021 Biografia linda, inicialmente me incomodou a idade e aspecto dos atores para a fase inicial (adolescência) muito mais velhos, nem tanto (25), mas com o decorrer percebi a necessidade diante das cenas linda de sexo, perfeito (sexy, sem sem vugar, hehe), mas poderia ter usado jovens atores com a mesma química, que aqui esta perfeita, assim como a ambientação, o tema me toca profundamente, como simpatizante, apesar de intenso, o preconceito em menor escala aqui, mas igualmente difícil, emocionante... See more cinephile f @RT52030170 Jun 6, 2021 Just a lovely film. I was on the verge of tears watching it. It's a beautiful story and very well acted and I appreciate that one of the lead actors is actually gay in his personal life. See more Apr 26, 2021 A tragic love story with powerful, tear inducing, compelling performances from Craig Stott and Ryan Corr. As someone who hardly cries to movies, by the end I found myself in a river of my own tears. Daalu! Thank you! See more Feb 8, 2021 Loved the film, especially Ryan Corr's performance as the late Tim Conigrave. I know that on one can ever replace Heath Ledger as the most talented actor to come out of Australia in the 21st century, but damn, Corr comes tantalizingly close. This is more of a showcase for his gifts and he gets a chance to run the gamut of emotions; Craig Stott isn't given a lot to do as Caleo, other than react to Tim Conigrave (Corr). He's underused here. A rather handsome young man, one wants to see what else he is capable of as an actor. Their best scenes together are in the early days of the Tim/John romance; the love scenes are romantic and their expression of puppy love is quite sweet and moving. The film structure is a bit hard to follow, jumping from the 70s to the 80s, back to the 70s and then to the 90s, but the overall heart of the film is so strong and you know how tragic it will become, you almost don't want the film to move forward towards the AIDS epidemic (which it does, without mercy) and towards its devastating conclusion. See more Read all reviews
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Movie Info

Synopsis In the 1970s, two teen boys in Australia fight all obstacles thrown their way and refuse to renounce the love they feel for each other.
Director
Neil Armfield
Producer
Kylie Du Fresne
Screenwriter
Tommy Murphy
Genre
Drama, Romance, Biography, LGBTQ+
Original Language
Australian English
Release Date (Streaming)
Sep 23, 2016
Runtime
2h 7m
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