He's Just Not That Into You

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He's Just Not That Into You

PG-13

2009

2h 9m

Romance

Comedy

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Baltimore-based friends and lovers, all in their 20s and 30s, try to navigate their way through the complexities of modern relationships. Beth (Jennifer Aniston) wants commitment from Neil (Ben Affleck), who sees nothing wrong with the status quo. Gigi (Ginnifer Goodwin) is tired of waiting by the phone, while Mary (Drew Barrymore) has a slew of supportive male friends, none of whom are straight. Meanwhile, Janine has trust issues with her husband, who can't trust himself around Anna.

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Critics Consensus

Despite the best efforts of a talented cast, He's Just Not That Into You devotes too little time to each of its protagonists, thus reducing them to stereotypes.

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Shubhra Gupta

The Indian Express

What's surprising is how many marquee names [Ken] Kwapis has lined up for these regurgigated romantic lectures on when to know when someone is into someone.

Apr 26, 2019

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Candice Frederick

Reel Talk Online

... it was entertaining and it addressed all the normal relationships troubles people face each day.

Rated: B-

Sep 12, 2017

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David Stratton

The Australian

Though the actors involved are mostly major players, the material they've been given to work with is very old hat.

Rated: 2.5/5

Feb 20, 2009

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Brian Eggert

Deep Focus Review

The stories will have audiences saying, “I know just how they feel.” And since your standard Hollywood rom-com often avoids reality whatsoever, the mild dose of truth in He’s Just Not That Into You is both refreshing and welcomed.

Rated: 2.5/4

Dec 15, 2023

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Mike Massie

Gone With The Twins

Although it's disguised as a Valentine's Day flick, and the advertising tries to convince that it isn't filled exclusively with mushy stuff, it's certainly not fun-loving.

Rated: 5/10

Nov 28, 2020

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Rachel Wagner

Rachel's Reviews (YouTube)

For the most part about 80% of the love stories work and are compelling

Oct 19, 2020

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sofia B

Classic, cant recommend enough

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

10/29/25

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VITALII H

Somewhat naive, somewhat funny. Under delivered in both comedy and drama departments. But it's very instructive. You watch how relationships are evolving between couples that are on their different stages (civil marriage, 10+ years married. new couples, etc). The cast is incredible. I watched it with my mom and we both agreed that it's a good movie.

Rated 3.5 out of 5 stars

10/26/25

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Arija W.

The best advice I got from this movie was from Justin Long. All his advice was 100% real and raw. His advice modernized my dating life forever. The main character Gigi, however, makes me cringe. She portrays this pathetic woman in the world that we’re living in. I’m sure she may make men question their sexuality. This movie is also relatable with the authentic rawness. The rashness, sexiness and liveliness, it makes it relatable. Plus the actors are incredible. This is is must watch.

Rated 4 out of 5 stars

10/07/25

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Daniel M

It’s a movie with a great cast and some good stories from a mix of different couples, nothing special really and just one of those movies you go watch on date night. It was good though!

Rated 3.5 out of 5 stars

09/29/25

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Chloe e

I really enjoyed this movie. Some of the scenes have stuck with me for years and I think there is a lot of truth to the story lines. Good acting and fast moving - a must see romantic comedy.

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

08/08/25

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charlotte t

my favourite part of this move was the interviews they added throughout, from what seemed like ordinary people. it was a creative aspect in which helped to keep the story relatable and funny, especially in a movie surrounded with well known actors. i loved viewing multiple narratives and found the way in which each character was connected was clever, however, i wish the dialogue wasn't so focussed on solely their relationships. it seemed as though it was all the characters talked about, specifically Gigi.

Rated 2.5 out of 5 stars

07/15/25

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Synopsis

Baltimore-based friends and lovers, all in their 20s and 30s, try to navigate their way through the complexities of modern relationships. Beth (Jennifer Aniston) wants commitment from Neil (Ben Affleck), who sees nothing wrong with the status quo. Gigi (Ginnifer Goodwin) is tired of waiting by the phone, while Mary (Drew Barrymore) has a slew of supportive male friends, none of whom are straight. Meanwhile, Janine has trust issues with her husband, who can't trust himself around Anna.

Director: Ken Kwapis
Producer: Nancy Juvonen
Screenwriter: Abby Kohn, Marc Silverstein
Distributor: Warner Bros.
Production Co: New Line Cinema, Internationale Filmproduktion Blackswan, Flower Films
Rating: PG-13 (Sexual Content|Brief Strong Language)
Genre: Romance, Comedy
Original Language: English
Release Date (Theaters): Feb 6, 2009, Wide
Release Date (Streaming): Mar 1, 2011
Runtime: 2h 9m

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