In the Family

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In the Family

2011

2h 49m

Drama

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After his partner dies in a car accident, a gay man (Patrick Wang) must fight for custody of the boy (Sebastian Brodziak) he's come to love as his own son.

Critics Consensus

In the Family uses one couple's tragedy to examine the legal meaning of parenthood - and make a persuasive argument for a more inclusive approach to family law.

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Mick LaSalle

San Francisco Chronicle

To see it is to sit there for long stretches amazed at how clumsy, fake and misguided it is. But then, five minutes later you might easily be riveted and moved by its awkward brilliance.

Rated: 2/4

Dec 7, 2012

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Marsha McCreadie

Village Voice

Trevor St. John is cute and broody-mouthed as the deceased lover; Wang, the movie's writer-director, is touchingly, disarmingly open; and the kid, Sebastian Banes, is adorable.

Nov 13, 2012

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Keith Uhlich

Time Out

No doubt you've noticed the nearly three-hour runtime, but please don't let that dissuade you: Every moment counts in this gripping tale ...

Rated: 5/5

Nov 13, 2012

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Nathanael Hood

Unseen Films

...a humanist triumph.

Rated: 9/10

Jan 6, 2020

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Nicholas Bell

IONCINEMA.com

Wang has created what sounds like a hot topic potboiler on paper and made a film that's as hopefully humanistic as it is melancholically realistic.

Aug 6, 2019

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Mattie Lucas

From the Front Row

An emotionally shattering denouement to one of the year's most truly special debuts, heralding the arrival of a thrilling new cinematic voice.

Rated: 3.5/4

Aug 6, 2019

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Alec B

The potential for over-the-top, weepy melodrama with this kind of material is obvious, but Patrick Wang opts for quiet realism. While the film sidesteps nearly all of the "movie-of the week" clichés by showing how in many cases the best response to intolerance isn't righteous anger or protest but rather impassioned, mature discussion and forgiveness.

Rated 4 out of 5 stars

11/28/23

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nilufer e

It was way too long and slow for my taste but it had what you would expect from a family drama, realistic and sentimental. Good acting and cute and lovable characters.

Rated 3.5 out of 5 stars

03/31/23

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Audience Member

Not bad at all, even though kinda melodramatic in blood. But 170 minutes is real too overlong for a feature film no matter what.

Rated 3 out of 5 stars

02/04/23

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Audience Member

Maybe one of the most poignant movies I have seen. Definitely worth the long length. Patrick Wang is well worth watching in the future as both a director and as an actor.

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

01/26/23

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Claude H

Needs editing but really good story line. Remember folks to keep your wills updated!

Rated 3 out of 5 stars

06/22/14

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The potential for over-the-top, weepy melodrama with this kind of material is obvious, but Patrick Wang opts for quiet realism. While the film sidesteps nearly all of the "movie-of the week" clichés, the glacial pace could be difficult for some people to endure (nearly three hours worth of this story probably isn't necessary), fortunately Wang makes the important moments count, so if you are patient "In the Family" is quite rewarding. Another thing that helps distinguish this film is its subtle demonstration of "Bourgeois Homophobia" (The kind of passive aggressive discrimination that's becoming more common in America than the violent hatred of old) and how perhaps the best response to it isn't righteous anger or protest but rather impassioned, mature discussion and forgiveness.

Rated 4 out of 5 stars

02/13/23

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Synopsis

After his partner dies in a car accident, a gay man (Patrick Wang) must fight for custody of the boy (Sebastian Brodziak) he's come to love as his own son.

Director: Patrick Wang
Screenwriter: Patrick Wang
Production Co: In the Family
Genre: Drama
Original Language: English
Release Date (Streaming): Aug 1, 2017
Runtime: 2h 49m

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