You, Me & Her

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You, Me & Her

R

Feb 2025

1h 34m

Comedy

Drama

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Mags (Selina Ringel), a high-powered, Latinx financial advisor who runs the household and Ash (Ritesh Rajan), Indian-American, a great dad who runs a struggling cannabis start-up, are stuck in a rut. They can't stop arguing on their first vacation alone together after having a baby until they meet Angela (Sydney Park), a spiritual digital nomad, who takes a romantic interest in Mags. Mags starts to question her own sexuality when she becomes intrigued by Angela. Suddenly Ash and Mags start to reconnect over the idea of having a threesome in hopes that the excitement of the potential sexual experience will save their marriage.

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Randy Myers

San Jose Mercury News

Feb 14

3/4

Ringel’s screenplay and the likable three lead performances go beyond the titillating premise to create something real that has something of merit to say about a marriage in crisis which gets a new shot at life from unexpected people and places.

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Marya E. Gates

RogerEbert.com

Feb 14

1 / 4

Like the worst kind of voyeuristic, heterosexual swingers, the film dabbles in non-monogamy and same-sex attraction solely as a means to heteronormative ends.

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Dennis Harvey

Variety

12/14/2023

It’s a small, slyly humorous movie that nonetheless ends on a note of more dramatic substance than you’d expect.

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Jackie K. Cooper

jackiekcooper.com

Feb 24

4/10

A sexy premise that drowns in dullness.

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Sarah Vincent

Sarah G Vincent Views

Feb 19

“You, Me & Her” feels like a tragedy because it never occurs to Mags that she deserves better than Ash only that Angela brings out a side to her that she thought was lost. Well, that happens when you marry a massive annoying killjoy

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Rick Bentley

KGET-TV (Bakersfield, CA)

Feb 14

C-

Ringel’s script never delves deep into the emotional and psychological elements of this sexual three-ring circus. There is a juvenile silliness with what happens that keeps the film from ever finding a serious touchstone.

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ESM

Feb 20

Different from what’s out. Many innuendos any millennial / Gen X or married person in general would appreciate.

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Ellie P

Feb 18

You, Me, and Her is a refreshing, thought-provoking exploration of relationships and the complexities of love. The characters are relatable and deeply human, with the actors delivering nuanced performances that capture the joys and conflicts of unconventional love. The sharp, witty dialogue and authentic chemistry between the leads make the emotional journey compelling. The film balances lighthearted moments with intimate, introspective scenes, while the direction ensures the story stays genuine rather than sensationalized. It’s a must-watch for anyone interested in stories that go beyond the ordinary!

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Kiki A

Feb 17

I love Selina Ringel and Dan Levy Dagerman's work to connect with their audiences on taboo subjects around modern relationships. In the rise of digital media, couples often portray unattainable "perfect" marriages, meanwhile, all long-term couples struggle with intimacy. My favorite moment of the movie is when Ash supports his wife as she questions her sexuality, something not often seen in movies. Audiences don't often see these tropes portrayed in movies. It was a perfect blend of commentary, comedy, and romance. I highly recommend this movie for a date night or if you want to enjoy a fun movie night with the girls.

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Viv

Feb 16

I thought the message is good, but the acting is so so!

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Ben R

Feb 16

I hope everyone boycotts the new Marvel movie and gives this beautiful small film a chance. I laughed. I cried. I cried from laughing and then I cried again. I felt it did a great job presenting the stresses and problems of a married couple from my generation in a way I haven't seen captured on screen before. There are a lot of laugh out loud moments, but I found the strongest points of the film to be moments between Ash and Mags talking about their relationship and trying to make it work. I loved the ending as it left things still kind of messy because that is how real life is. Support independent film and go see this movie!

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Joseph D

Feb 15

Not very entertaining at all!

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Mags (Selina Ringel), a high-powered, Latinx financial advisor who runs the household and Ash (Ritesh Rajan), Indian-American, a great dad who runs a struggling cannabis start-up, are stuck in a rut. They can't stop arguing on their first vacation alone together after having a baby until they meet Angela (Sydney Park), a spiritual digital nomad, who takes a romantic interest in Mags. Mags starts to question her own sexuality when she becomes intrigued by Angela. Suddenly Ash and Mags start to reconnect over the idea of having a threesome in hopes that the excitement of the potential sexual experience will save their marriage.

Director: Dan Levy Dagerman
Producer: Selina Ringel, Dan Levy Dagerman, Ritesh Rajan, Cameron Fife, Fernando Lebrija, Pablo Lebrija
Screenwriter: Selina Ringel
Distributor: Attend
Production Co: Two Hands Productions, Irreversible Pictures
Rating: R
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Original Language: English
Release Date (Theaters): Feb 14, 2025, Limited
Runtime: 1h 34m

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