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Breaking Upwards

Play trailer Poster for Breaking Upwards Released Apr 2, 2010 1h 28m Romance Comedy Play Trailer Watchlist
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A young couple (Daryl Wein, Zoe Lister-Jones) living in New York make an intricate plan to gradually end their relationship.

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Tom Russo Boston Globe Scenes meant to play as breezy and hip are more often just annoying. Rated: 2/4 Jul 15, 2010 Full Review Walter V. Addiego San Francisco Chronicle Breaking Upwards has its amusing and touching moments, but we're left wondering just what we're supposed to make of it all. Rated: 2/4 Apr 15, 2010 Full Review Betsy Sharkey Los Angeles Times Comes knocking at the door like a wolf in sheep's clothing, draping reality in a fictional romantic comedy about a twentysomething NYC couple named Daryl and Zoe whose relationship is coming apart. Rated: 3/5 Apr 9, 2010 Full Review Lisa Rosman IFC.com In this plodding, plotting gimmick of a film, only Pablo Schreiber, as Zoe's loutish rebound, and the rarely seen Andrea Martin, as Zoe's oversharing mom, come off smelling like a rose. Jul 18, 2017 Full Review Michael C. Walsh Boston Phoenix Wein's debut feature is kind of a mess: he withholds and warps the emotions of the main characters till there's little sympathy to be had. But though this tactic is usually enough to derail a film, it works here... Rated: 3/4 Jul 14, 2010 Full Review Mike McGranaghan Aisle Seat Whiny and self-indulgent. Rated: 1/4 May 15, 2010 Full Review Read all reviews

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Audience Member such a cute movie and so funny. I loved it. Zoe Lister-Jones and Daryl Wein are brilliant. Rated 5 out of 5 stars 01/23/23 Full Review Audience Member i don't know why y'all are hating on this movie, it was actually pretty good. the ending was a little bothersome but all in all i would recommend this. definitely better than most chick flicks. Rated 4 out of 5 stars 01/29/23 Full Review Audience Member a believable snapshot of a modern, young, city-dwelling couple trying to help themselves get out of their routine, and working out their issues on independence and intimacy. watch out for the moms in this one :) i l liked how zoe's mom mentioned the guys on the jewish dating website were all octogenarians, and how daryl's mom played PI to suss out what was going on in zoe's life... Rated 3 out of 5 stars 02/13/23 Full Review Audience Member Funny, original, and resonating. Rated 4 out of 5 stars 01/12/23 Full Review Audience Member there were genuinely funny moments. i enjoyed more than disliked it but the couple did get kinda irritating with their antics, zoe lister being more so. francis benhamou (zoe lister jone's good friend in real-life too) from Arranged, has a cameo role here. this was a fifteen thousand (US) dollars effort, very commendable! Rated 3 out of 5 stars 01/19/23 Full Review Audience Member A couple who are bored with their relationship incrementally break up. <i>Breaking Upwards</i> is a charming, realistic depiction of a couple who are right for each other even though it feels wrong. Strong performances by director/editor/co-writer Daryl Wein and co-writer Zoe Lister Jones carry the film, which has a wry wit and some smart dialogue. And the last shot is truly heart-breaking. There were few things about the film that I didn't like, but they were so essential to the story that they were impossible to ignore. At the beginning, the stated reason for their break up is that they're both "bored." I recall David Thewlis's monologue from Mike Leigh's <i>Naked</i> in which he rants against people who are bored despite having untold possibilities for engagement: "You have the universe explained to you, and you're bored with it," he says disdainfully. Equally, I recall a former teacher telling me, "If students say they're bored, then they're boring people." I have little patience for characters and real people telling me they're bored, so I was hoping that during the increments of the break-up, past issues would crop up so that we can understand that there is a deeper reason for their split. Most people in their early twenties haven't been hurt enough to deserve ennui. Also, while on their days off, Daryl and Zoe have no shortage of other suitors. In the construction of the film's plot, this seems like an easy way out. Most often, the choices in real life aren't between a semi-fulfilling relationship and attention from new, flawed suitors (flawed certainly in Zoe's case, but not so much in Daryl's); the choices in real life are between a semi-fulfilling relationship and loneliness, which is a condition that motivates people much more than the lack of fulfillment one finds from fucking one's co-star in a bad off-Broadway play. I wanted to see these characters more vulnerable without each other, which would have made the ending of their relationship so much harder to stomach. Overall, there is a lot to like about <i>Breaking Upwards</i>, and during all of my future (and one of my past) failed relationships, I'm going to use the phrase "Let's not break up; let's break upwards," but as a film, this indie comedy falls into the trapping tropes that most films of its ilk fall into, making it good enough to make me wish it were so much better. Rated 3 out of 5 stars 02/26/23 Full Review Read all reviews
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Movie Info

Synopsis A young couple (Daryl Wein, Zoe Lister-Jones) living in New York make an intricate plan to gradually end their relationship.
Director
Daryl Wein
Producer
Zoe Lister Jones, Daryl Wein
Screenwriter
Daryl Wein, Zoe Lister Jones, Peter Duchan
Distributor
IFC Films
Production Co
Daryl Wein Films, Mister Lister Films
Genre
Romance, Comedy
Original Language
English
Release Date (Theaters)
Apr 2, 2010, Limited
Release Date (Streaming)
Apr 5, 2017
Box Office (Gross USA)
$76.4K
Runtime
1h 28m
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