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05/08/2014 as a film it was not masterful by any means, but it was immensely moving and informative just as window into a very unexplored community. for me what was so tragic was the way these people were forced into sex change operations by their societies and governments, and still were shunned and discriminated against after their operations, oftentimes turning to prostitution to maintain themselves. the most heartbreaking moments came when we could see how they were brainwashed into self-hatred. See more 07/20/2011 This is certainly a film that needed to be made, but I felt at times that it wasn't as well made as it could have been. My primary problem was that some of the people's stories were never followed; the film gave a great starting glimpse, and usually a stunner check-in, but did not conclude with all of the people. Most notably, the FtM person was never followed, and I was not aware that the Iranian system even allowed for FtMs (which when you consider their culture, the upshift in civil rights one would obtain from having a male social status, surely following this tiny slice of the population would be most intriguing subject matter for a documentary) . Another failure is that the film never details what treatments the government provides and how/if the government does provide them. At one point, money is discussed with one patient, but it is still unclear to me if it is all state-funded or if firstly the state expects the patient to pay, and only if the patient can not does the state kick in money. It's also important to clarify what procedures the government allows be performed, considers necessary to finance, and has the surgeons to perform. Yes, I could research this, but that doesn't negate the fact that the film should include it. As it is, the film was not compelling enough to provoke me to do that additional research. If I do that additional research (and I probably will), it will be at a later date because I've read about some recent trans* activity in Iran and I'll want clarification to feel like a well-informed transsexual who could be a well-informed transactivist. As the film is willing to make other factual statements about transsexual life in Iran, it needs to make these important facts clear also. I was very interested to see that in Iran, more than in the West, (as I somewhat suspected) there are transsexuals who serve as the strictest gatekeepers to other transpeople's identities. I am of course speaking of the infamous Vida, a most critical transwoman, who attacks prospective surgery patients for the smallest infractions whilst also trying to negotiate to keep them in good standing with their families. She is the one, more than any doctor or religious/government official, who believes she can dictate the gender identity AND performance of others and decide if their sexgender is acceptable. Because of the way Iran arranges its system, she does indeed have the most influence over the minds of the people seeking trans* treatment. The lack of followup, adequate context for non-trans* and non-Iranians, and overall disconnected feel of the edit makes for a much weaker piece than this should be. Still, let me echo again, I am SO GLAD SOMEONE MADE THIS FILM. Even if it is through eyes that are squinting, it is still a sight that needs seeing. See more 06/21/2010 very sad eye opening stories of men (turned into women) in Iran. See more 10/04/2009 Simple, blunt yet potent documentary about sex-change surgery in Tehran, which enlightened me as to how outspoken, articulate and sophisticated Iranian could be, and how were they torn between their families, their own 'desires', and the almighty Islamic laws. The dialogues and testimonies were often better than movie scripts, and the portrayal of characters was more than genuine. See more 01/15/2009 An interesting movie shot in Iran regarding transexuals. It is allowed by the Islamic government to have gender reassignment surgery but it is very much shunned by the family. At least the male to female transexuals. The female to male reassignment surgeries is much easier for them to get acceptance. It is almost like getting a 'promotion' becoming a male in a patriarchal society. The movie did not follow the female to male subjects since they could not find those that wanted to be on film. In my humble opinion, it is not good to have a religious government. See more 10/28/2008 An insight view from another muslim world which is somehow quite paradoxal to me. The caracters were all very articulate and open with their point of view. A good documentary to watch. See more Read all reviews

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