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Play trailer Poster for How Do You Know PG-13 Released Dec 17, 2010 2h 1m Romance Comedy Play Trailer Watchlist
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Lisa Jorgenson's (Reese Witherspoon) entire life has been defined by softball, but at 31, she is deemed too old to play and cut from the team. After being cast adrift, she begins a fling with Matty (Owen Wilson), a charming womanizer who plays professional baseball. About the same time, she goes on a blind date with George (Paul Rudd), a businessman on the hook for stock fraud. Caught in a romantic triangle with the two men, Lisa ponders the meaning of love.
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How Do You Know boasts a quartet of likeable leads -- and they deserve better than this glib, overlong misfire from writer/director James L. Brooks.

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Shubhra Gupta The Indian Express Three likeable stars and Jack Nicholson. Can you take this foursome and make a film that makes you want to barf the moment it opens? Yes, if the film is How Do You Know. Rated: 1/5 Apr 3, 2019 Full Review Peter Travers Rolling Stone Rated: 3/4 Jan 26, 2012 Full Review Bill Goodykoontz Arizona Republic Some of the bits are funny, every now and then they're sweet, the performances are OK and really, with this much talent involved, it's hard not to be disappointed in that. Rated: 3/5 Aug 12, 2011 Full Review Brian Eggert Deep Focus Review A serviceable, low-key romantic comedy that’s just entertaining enough to keep our attention, but with few flourishes to last in our memory the way Brooks’ movies usually do. Rated: 2/4 Aug 3, 2023 Full Review Richard Propes TheIndependentCritic.com At least a modest disappointment for those of us who consider ourselves fans of James L. Brooks. Rated: 2.5/4.0 Sep 11, 2020 Full Review Brent McKnight The Last Thing I See Earnest and watchable, there are some incredibly funny moments, but in the end, this isn't anything more than a middle-of-the-road rom-com. Rated: C Jul 14, 2020 Full Review Read all reviews

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Matthew D Charming acting saves a very awkward script. Director James L. Brooks’ romantic comedy How Do You Know (2010) is alright. I found it pretty funny, but not romantic enough for my taste. We don’t get enough of Reese Witherspoon and Paul Rudd together, bonding, and being romantic. Brooks’ direction is not that creative, but he is effective at making jokes, but his script has like 5 different storylines going on simultaneously. Why does Reese keep going back to Owen Wilson when he dismisses her, ignores her, and cheats on her? It’s so annoying, when she could have had more flirting scenes with Paul Rudd instead. James L. Brooks’ script is simply imbalanced. There’s Reese losing her softball team spot, her seeking love, Owen messing around with her, Paul Rudd flirting with Reese, Paul dealing with his father’s company getting a lawsuit, Paul having to decide whether he or his father should go to jail, not to mention Kathryn Hahn’s character having a baby. It’s all over the place and should have focused more on Reese and Paul’s characters trying to get to know each other as their lives have both been torn apart, rather than them not being on screen together for most of the movie. Reese Witherspoon is very funny, charming, and beautiful as softball player Lisa Jorgenson. Witherspoon always makes me laugh, so she brings a lot of How Do You Know. Owen Wilson is such an unlikable jerk as baseball playboy Matty Reynolds. He can be funny, but his character is so sleazy that he’s in this too much. Paul Rudd is very likable and playful as the awkward lawyer George Madison. Jack Nicholson is amusing as Rudd’s selfishly evil father and law firm CEO Charles Madison. Dean Norris gets to be a jerk as Reese’s coach Tom, who fires her. Kathryn Hahn is vaguely fun as Rudd’s kind pregnant secretary Annie. She doesn’t add very much here. I liked John Tormey’s friendly Doorman, who could have had a few more funny lines. Tony Shalhoub is quite funny in his cameo as Reese’s psychiatrist. Teyonah Parris has a cute bit as Reese’s softball gal pal Riva. Editors Tracey Wadmore-Smith and Richard Marks cut all over the place between these numerous characters for a jarring effect. Cinematographer Janusz Kamiński shoots some nice close-up shots, but all the wide and medium shots look like a television show. The flat lighting from David Devlin and Molly Cheshire don’t help that aesthetic. Production designer Jeannine Oppewall makes several cozy apartment sets that feel like fancy homes. Composer Hans Zimmer provides the most forgettable film score he’s ever done. Costume designer Shay Cunliffe’s dresses and jackets for Reese are super cute on her. Makeup artists Michael Germain, Lisa Hans-Wolf, Lindsay Irish-Desarno, Sandra Linn Koepper, June Brickman, Christina Smith, Patty York, and Robin Fredriksz make Reese glow and let the guys look sharp. I was often distracted by Reese’s gorgeous blonde tresses from hairstylists Daniel Howell, Janice Innella, Lona Vigi, Lydia Bensimmon, Michael White, Geraldine Jones, Sherri Bramlett, and Joy Zapata. Lastly, How Do You Know is pretty funny thanks to Reese Witherspoon, Paul Rudd, and Owen Wilson’s acting. However, why was it 121 minutes long? It’s a basic rom-com that could have easily cut an entire half hour. Rated 3 out of 5 stars 11/14/24 Full Review Donnette T I've never seen a bad Paul Rudd movie until this one. Meandering and cliche, it manages to pull universally dreadful performances out of a star-studded cast. Rated 0.5 out of 5 stars 08/09/24 Full Review Alan g Waste of Reese Witherspoon's talent. Paul Rudd and Owen Wison can't act as usual. Jack Nicholson in it for tge payday. Avoid. Rated 0.5 out of 5 stars 07/10/24 Full Review Test T I watched this on DVD recently. It has lots of star acting talent, and is well made with expertly shot pleasant scenes in pretty locations. With all this you would think it would be a hit movie, but sadly it's not. The story is overly stated, in that the characters spend far too long wallowing in self analysis explaining their motivations which makes the movie feel slow and tiresome. Having watched the DVD extras I think it's the director's fault. There are some funny scenes, and I enjoyed Owen's & Jack's performances most. I found Reese's and Paul's characters disappointing, and somewhat unappealing. Over all, it's OK, but fall's way short of what it should have been. Rated 2 out of 5 stars 03/02/24 Full Review E C I love this movie and watch it often. It's not mind blowing but it feels so comfortable and I wish there were more new movies like it. I'm sad to see the poor reviews and I think they're missing the charm and small nuances that make it great. It's not in-your-face, filled with thrills and stunts, or trying to invent something new…but if you love movies about people that walk you through relationships, stage plays, and rom coms from before the 2000s, you'll probably love this too. While the dialogue isn't realistic, it's refreshing how direct and open the characters are. And although it's heavy handed, as a therapist, I think does an amazing job of demonstrating attachment styles and relationship dynamics. So, if you're looking for a dreamy feel good movie that lets you escape into an idealized version of modern romance while also giving you glimmers of movies like Sleepless in Seattle or When Harry Met Sally, please give it a watch. Rated 5 out of 5 stars 11/04/23 Full Review Sherry S How Do You Know? Well, I know when I've just been subjected to a horrific film! It was poorly written, not funny, and made absolutely no sense. How Do You Know? If you ignore the negative reviews, as I foolishly did, You Will Know! How the director and actors did not know is the bigger question. Now you know! Skip this one. Rated 0.5 out of 5 stars 10/31/23 Full Review Read all reviews
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Synopsis Lisa Jorgenson's (Reese Witherspoon) entire life has been defined by softball, but at 31, she is deemed too old to play and cut from the team. After being cast adrift, she begins a fling with Matty (Owen Wilson), a charming womanizer who plays professional baseball. About the same time, she goes on a blind date with George (Paul Rudd), a businessman on the hook for stock fraud. Caught in a romantic triangle with the two men, Lisa ponders the meaning of love.
Director
James L. Brooks
Producer
James L. Brooks, Paula Weinstein, Laurence Mark, Julie Ansell
Screenwriter
James L. Brooks
Distributor
Sony Pictures
Production Co
Gracie Films
Rating
PG-13 (Some Strong Language|Sexual Content)
Genre
Romance, Comedy
Original Language
English
Release Date (Theaters)
Dec 17, 2010, Wide
Release Date (Streaming)
Mar 22, 2011
Box Office (Gross USA)
$30.2M
Runtime
2h 1m
Sound Mix
SDDS, Dolby Digital, DTS
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